
This Last Blog is an accumulation of many thoughts and stories from the past couple of weeks. Hope it’s not too much or too little….enjoy.
Leaving could be either the hardest or easiest thing you’ve done in a long time. For me it’s one of the hardest. The people I’ve met and the relationships I’ve enjoyed are priceless and will continue on…some for the rest of my life. Leaving brings about the realization that I will no longer be a 15 minute walk from the ocean and a 20 minute bus ride from the mountains. I know that where I will soon go to school and live, none of this will be available. If you go to Wales I hope that you will embrace the culture and the people like I have. I hope you will grow to love the beautiful landscapes and the kindness and pride of its people. When the time comes to leave, make sure you plan time to say goodbye to everyone — even those who are going to the U.S. You might even say goodbye to your flat or the hills. Whatever floats your boat. I said goodbye to these places and more. Everyone is different… but some places you just MUST go to! Here’s a partial list: Mikes Bites, Belle vue, Yellow Pub, Pizza House, Whether spoons, Varsity, University, Octagon, Time, Academy, The Pier, Roman Camp, Bar Uno ( especially for football and Rugby games) Tap and Spil.

Here comes the randomness for this blog…So many memories!
While my friend from Spain visited he was able to watch Tyler (a student from Central) and I perform for a class. Tyler played guitar and I sang. My friend and Tyler both play guitar…so I brought them into the kitchen, made them breakfast and listened while Tyler played the Gibson and my friend played the acoustic guitar. Yep, the kitchen is often the hot spot. Eight hours later they were still ‘jammin’ in my kitchen while my flat mates and I studied for upcoming finals. Often there is a huge tele (TV) in the kitchen where all the men revert to boys and play “Call of Duty” among many other video games. I will always be missing that ever busy kitchen where there was some kind entertainment while we were cooking. Sometimes, in the evening, a good card game or game of poker is definitely the best option! While you are here, facilitating things to happen around you involving people you enjoy will keep you busy and always of good cheer.

Up in the early morning to catch a train…and yes I mean catch as my flat mates and I ran to catch our train into Chester! First stop the Chester Zoo…now personally, I don’t like zoos; mainly because free and amazing animals are being caged. However, the fact that this zoo has many programs for endangered species and conservation efforts enticed me to a visit. So on this sunny day (during which we all got burnt — so put your sun block on kids…haha) we enjoyed this spacious and dazzling animal filled zoo! We saw every exhibit in a six hour day. Note to the wise; take a packed lunch as we did because the food is very expensive.

BBQs here are different and more plentiful. It is common for one of your friends to get a disposable barbecue, grab drinks, meat and snacks, head out into the grass by the buildings or out into the hills, and enjoy a great meal. (A disposable barbecue is like a turkey baking tin with coals in the bottom and a grate; use it and throw it away.) I’m used to a BBQ being a huge deal with so much preparation it becomes stressful at some point. Being here has opened my eyes to quick, easy, worry free spontaneous meals in the beautiful outdoors of Wales. (It’s a good idea to make sure the coals are completely out before you put the barby in the dumpster; I’ll never forget the flaming dumpster surprise waiting for us one evening.)
If you are a baker be aware that pie is non-existent in Wales. But, if you make them a pumpkin or apple pie, or some kind of baked treat…it will be a hit! Baking or cooking often speaks to the heart of your flat mates…and is something of our tradition you can share with them! They will love it!
If you are searching for Welsh Love Spoons while you are away; wait until you get into Cardiff. Find Mark Davies (a famous Love Soon Carver) and look at his masterpieces. He’ll even engrave something on one for you (by hand!). He’s known throughout Great Britain and has done several commissions for the Queen. This month his work will be on exhibit at the Smithsonian in Washington, D.C.! He is a real person and seeing his amazing hand carving talents is glorious. If you want the real thing go to him!
Indoor climbing was one of the last things we got to do in Outdoor Pursuits. It’s a great big playground for climbers. What a great hobby to acquire! After the initial expenses for equipment, it is relatively inexpensive. We all had a great time trying different grades and levels of climbing. If you are okay with heights it is very relaxing and a great was yo pass the time on a stormy day. (If you aren’t one to be chasing storms.) Again, when you come to Wales I definitely suggest you take Outdoor Pursuits. It’s a blast!

When it came to those last precious weeks; I began to take advantage of every moment, even more so than in the past. So a spontaneous jaunt down to the pier to see the sunrise was a brilliant idea. This idea occurred on the same evening as the Summer Ball. This event is an extravagant evening with men in tuxes and women in gowns. There are bargains and deals from all the venues around Bangor…even breakfast in the morning. However, the Ball itself was 50 pounds. So those of us who didn’t want to pay that steep price chose to make the evening fun in our own way. The Pier was breathtaking! We arrived at 3:30am just as the light trickled from the sea’s edge. As a group, we inhaled deeply…the sweet fresh morning ocean breeze. I looked at the faces surrounding me and they all seemed lost in the recollection and the nostalgia of our time spent in Wales….most of us cried…(if only to ourselves) while marveling at the sun rising above the sea. How beautiful it all was! How lucky I am to have had this experience! This was another moment when I tried to photographically and emotionally ingrain it into my mind. I know I’ve said that for many of the experiences here in Wales. However, it’s all true. I was once asked what negative things there are about Wales and it was hard to think of anything. The best I could do was say the peanut butter tasted different. That being the worst thing, I’m pretty sure you’ll agree that Wales is as brilliant as I’ve always described.

After a missed train, a flight delay…and then a flight re-route I finally got on a plane from Wales to Boston. The flight was long, as it always is. However, on this flight behind me two Russians spoke incessantly. To my left four French men shared many cheers over drinks. In front of them, surprisingly, a group of Spanish women were all watching American style shows. And at last in front of me two people from Cardiff and three people from London. I enjoyed all of the languages. I will miss the cultures and the accents of the different languages. All of which enriched my life during those precious five months. This experience was life changing. It made me want to discover the complexities of the cultures and accents of the U.S.as well as other countries. When I stepped off the plane, went through customs, and stepped out into the neon signs and the humidity of Boston…a great sadness hit me. When I returned I was faced with finding those last few sentences to finish this last chapter of my life in Wales and not knowing how to start the next chapter of my life. I was faced with seeing old friends and trying to keep in touch with the new friends as well. There is also the fact that you may want to share all your experiences and excitement with those around you. Remember they may not want to hear it all. You have changed but they may not have. Be wary of telling too many stories as some people may be envious of your experience. Try little things like my friend Caitlin and I made a deal to always use a Welsh or British term in every text we send one another. In this way we will not let the magic die. It really helps to keep a journal of your feelings and the experiences you had while abroad, and how it felt to come back. I just know this will be so valuable to you in the future when you are in a different place in your life.
There is no way to fully describe all of my thoughts and feeling about such a brilliant experience. Nor can I tell all the stories which should be told. I definitely have been putting off this last blog; purely because it is a symbol of the end of something so pleasurable, so meaningful, and so educational. So…with that said, all I can add is I hope that you come back from Wales with as much joy as I did. The sadness and pain felt upon leaving is completely worth it, and I would not change a thing!
Here is a final Quote!
“Our lives are defined by opportunities, even the ones we miss.” Don’t miss this one!